Today is a day to respect customs and traditions. You might come across old but great points of view. It would be the best to seek advice from someone older, a senior, or someone knowledgeable in that field. One day you might use those advices for someone else in the future too.
Lets make objective decisions without letting ourselves get carried away by the emotions or the surrounding atmosphere. It needs courage to make a decision, since it would be troublesome if you misjudged something. Even if it ends in a bad result, if you have to mantain your balance and continue forward.
It's time for you to do something for your friend too. If you're feeling down let's look at your surroindings. You should understand that you're not the only one going through troubles for the others. For your future self too, today you should put more trust in your friend and follow after them.